THE LOVERS SESSION
What is it about?
The Lovers is a two-hour session – in office only – for the couple who wants to reignite the passionate connection that once existed in their relationship.
What is the synergy behind a disconnected couple?
At the beginning, falling in love seems so simple and obvious. Both individuals feel a mutual attraction toward each other and the flame is ignited. From that moment on, many choices can take place; deeper intimacy, moving in together, getting married and having kids. The spark that has initiated this flame often occurs instantly and as the time passes by well, another reality settles in.
Consciously, we assume that the only thing we bring to a couple is ourselves. But subconsciously, what we drag each time we embark on a new intimate journey with another person is a baggage of every single past association we had. While some are empowering, it is the disempowering associations that are lurking under the surface of the conscious part of the mind that undermine the true love that can take place between two people who feel attracted to each other.
As the couple’s uneasiness arises, many try consciously to resolve their differences. Although this might work for some time, many couples eventually fall back into chaos with head to head confrontations. Unless the heart is involved, many relationships that could have become a beautiful love story will unfortunately break up in pain. This pain will be part of the next relationship unless some deep work is done at the subconscious level to clear out the distressing energy as the result of the hurt coming from the previous disempowering associations.
What to expect during a Lovers session?
The first 30 minutes will be used to clearly identify what I call the heart of the misfortune within the couple which is, in the language of the heart, something that doesn’t beat at a natural rhythm and in the language of the head, something that doesn’t flow easily for the couple.
What will then follow is a simultaneous deep guided relaxation for both partners. During the first stage, each person will have the conscious part of their mind calmed. With the conscious relaxed, a clear path of communication can be established between the partners’ respective heart and subconscious. While the first partner will clear some disempowering association(s), the other partner will witness the process. Once this is completed, the role will be reversed where the partner who witnessed the cleansing process will now have his or her disempowering association(s) transformed. With their subconscious released from painful energy, each partner will now experience a heart to heart connection meant to reignite the love that was once part of their relationship.
Interested in having a Lovers Session with me?
Before you go any further, you need to know that the cost of a Lovers Session is $800.00 for a two-hour session and is made in two payments. The first $400.00 will be split equally between the two partners who will each send me an e-transfer. Only once I have received both amounts of $200.00 shall we book an appointment. Please note that there is no refund on the deposit of $400.00. The couple can, however, reschedule within a period of 3 months starting on the day I had received the last payment.
Why such a hefty price and rigid rules you might ask? Couple therapies demand very special skills on the part of the therapist. The synergies that take place are numerous – therapist/couple; therapist/partner A; therapist/partner B; partner A/partner B. Not only can those synergies take a toll on the therapist if they’re unconstructive, they can as well do more harm than good to the couple. I have witnessed too many cases where one partner was committed to the relationship while the other partner was playing games. I personally don’t have the time and the energy for this kind of behaviour. For me, the price, the mode of payment and the non-refundable policy for which a couple will agree on, is a clear sign they both are fully committed to make the Lovers Session a complete, lasting and enriching transformation for them.
I am only interested in working with couples who are 1000% involved in their relationship because this is what love truly deserves. My goal is to reignite the loving connection that once existed between two people so the players must be willing to fully engage in the process.
So, still interested in having a Lovers Session with me?
Your first step is to sit down and figure out, as a couple, what exactly you need help with. Then click the button below, and explain in no more than 50 words what is the uneasiness within the couple. On the subject of the email write Lovers Session. This is your preparation for what is coming up. I will give you everything that I have and as such, I expect that both of you do your part of the work. The most empowering couple therapy sessions are the ones where both partners have gained a certain awareness of their disconnection prior to the session.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Pierre
